Originally Posted by
tigerlilly4 
I just keep telling myself that if nothing comes out of "us" other than him getting healthy, then it was all worth it.
The other side of this equation is that YOU could get healthy, and then it would TOTALLY be worth it...
I really feel for you though, it is so sad to wait and wait for somebody else to change, only to have it not work out as you had hoped.
One part of you getting healthy, however, could be learning that you have the power to change yourself, and you don't have to wait for anyone else.