YOU WROTE:They deserve to have dad in thier life
My thoughts are, A DRUNK DAD???...Maybe buy them a puppy instead...
YOU WROTE: he will do atleast 18 months if he gets another Domestic charge against him. For me, I feel like that would be punishing my children for his actions...
My thoughts are, ANOTHER CHARGE??? ...Call for Help NOW!!!
YOU WROTE: Punishing your children??
Think of what it is doing to them MENTALLY..
Do the kids deserve to live like that, Do they deserve to see that, Do they
love daddy, of course they do, but NOT the drunk daddy. He is the only one
who can change that!
BUT "YOU" are the only one who can change what the kids
see and learn today...
Hope you do the right thing for yourself and the kids & their mental health!
There are alot of programs out there, to help you. You just have to ask!!
You have to open up to your friends/family and be honest with the problem.
If your like alot of us, we have never told anyone that this is going on,
so no one is going to offer help when they think our home is just fine.
Alanon, Domestic Abuse Hotline, Crisis Centers, The list goes on!
ASK FOR HELP!!!!!!
Im sure your kids are asking for help too, but they just dont know how too...