I've been on the receiving end of snooping - intentional or unintentional - doesn't matter...married or not. He violated my trust and privacy by taking whet he found and confronting me about it. I may be his wife, but I have a right to privacy and to be an individual.
If your RAH is really working the program, he will eventually share these things with you. Eventually means on his own time and terms. Until then, I'd forget about what I saw.