I guess I read it and replied bc it impacted the girls-- If it had been crap just berating me it would not get a reply and it won't... he did text me a ton this morning and again tonight and finally called when he got no reply and I informed him I wasn't going to read texts or reply to them and if he had something to say he could say it directly.
I know his game. Email and text he LOVES bc he can say whatever he wants with no repurcussions. And he can continue to do so but I will just get to be really good friends with the delete button...