I believe in the brain sickness concept as well. But I also believe its immaturity and an angry mindset in which they view the world. Some people are capable of changing that, but it takes a long time and a lot of painful lessons learned. I am probably not in the best frame of mind today, as I have had a few nasty run-ins with the RAH over tax issues. And today I don't have any hope his mind-set will ever change. Someone here said that you can wring the alcohol out of an a-hole and you still have an a-hole. This makes sense to me today.