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Old 03-25-2011, 02:21 PM
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hello-kitty
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Honey. This is really about you and not him. i go through the same thing with my boyfriend. Sometimes I find myself creating drama or getting depressed about things when what I really should be doing is focusing on myself and my life - the more diverse my life is, the less needy I feel. The less needy I feel, the better I feel about relationship with my boyfriend.

Do you have a plan for your life about where you want to be in 5 years? Specific goals. Do you want to graduate from college, go back to school, be making more money, own a house? These are the things that you can focus on in your life. These are things you have control over.

Your relationship, if it's meant to be, will be, so let go a little, and focus on yourself. No amount of pushing or neediness or control is going to change the way things are going to turn out with your boyfriend. That's why you need to focus on yourself.
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