So, how about working on you and keeping your contact if any with your neighbor to a bare minimum. You cannot help him, but you can help yourself to get a firm foundation in recovery
been doing that for a while :> its early recovery mate but hes a very sick drunk so hes always knocking.
reading codependency no more has helped some-for example he just knocked round now asking to borrow £2 [he already owes me a tenner] and i turned him down, I even had the courage to remind him he has my spare TV set next door [which he does].
I used to be deeply deeply codie laurie so was deeply attached to this guy before a recent [last 2/3 weeks] withdrawal.
om kevin