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kmkluvr1 YES YES YES, detachment is so hard for me as well!! just started a fight with XABF, while exchanging our son yesterday, i had very good reason to believe he had been drinking and drove with our son to meet me. GGRRR, how i do i keep my mouth shut about something like that?! well that led to him throwing my keys in the bushes and kneeing me in the ribs and leg. Ugh, if i just would have said nothing, and left, but still that is no reason for him to act like a child!
Urgh - Sorry that happened to you... When it comes to my kids I will never keep my mouth shut, I would much rather take a knee to the gut than risk my kids life in the car with someone drunk. NOT that that is OK in any way.
But you should definitely make sure your meeting place is a little more in public if thats how he is going to treat you.