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i agree with the majority, you need to report it. if you don't than you are sabotaging your own progress. he made his own choice to contact you against the law and if you allow it then what is the need for the order. and also how can law enforcement take you seriously if you are allowing him to blatantly disregard the law.
you have to stick to your guns or after a while you will not be taken seriously by your husband or the law. i'm sorry to sound harsh, but i am talking out of my own experience. i have been on the receiving end of the police being fed up and not knowing who to believe b/c i was being wishy washy and not persistent in reporting stuff.
take care and i did not mean to upset you with my post. i know that it's not easy. i have small children, too and i still love my husband, but i have to learn not to allow him to lure me back into his devastating cycle.
hugs and prayers.