Seems we've digressed from the OP (Original Post)
But I see, where we're all coming from.
We want to help. We don't like it when we're ignored because we know better. We'd like to see an outcome we projected. It's exactly what we do to our As and it's called Codependency.
I suspect this applies to more than just me but these threads trigger me every single time. Why? My answer is the same as what you have.
I have more work to do on recovering from my codependent behavior.
XXXXX, I'm referencing some concepts you can read about in Mellody Beattie's book, Codependent No More.