lol wanttobehealthy
((ThatWasThen))
Can I gently advise for you to get a copy of "Codependent no more" by Melody Beatty?
Excellent book.
So we have
Collateral damage that subsides after some time, or which consequences don't compromise your inner peace & health
vs
Constant damage that gets progressively worse without end in sight (or maybe there is no end to it, until death comes.. sorry to be harsh but this is the sad reality of addiction)