JSO you are in the right place. Look into al anon you will find support in both places. Dont do for him what he can do for himself. That is a start and a good one. You have plenty on your plate with your own recovery and taking care of those kids hopefully WITH him. Come here as often as you can. Informal Chat on Tuesday Thursday evening 8PM and noon Sundays. Formal chat (with topic and leader) Saturday 9 PM. All times Eastern