Thanks LexieCat.
I have another question to ask the forum -
Of course I hate to deal with my AH when he's under the influence because its truly frustrating. As each day passes with his BAC rising because he doesn't drink anything but A so its like he's never sober. I understand I shouldn't nag or complain about his drinking but how do I communicate my feelings without referencing the drinking when he asks why I'm acting or sounding this way?