She'll deny it and it won't do any good but at least I said my peace. I know I don't have to do this and in the long run, it's not a recovery reaction.
shellcrusher,
it might do you some good. if you can just say it once, and let go of any outcome.
"wife, i know you are drunk, stay away from me."
or something to that effect. if you say it more than once it is not for you.
just once.
and, maybe a nice cigar while relaxing a little?
enjoy that little guy!
Beth