Holy cow, were you married to my AH? Really, the date of his dad's death was on Thanksgiving and I had to run for cover. For some reason, he did get better at handling Thanksgiving in the last few years but shoots down every other holiday. What is it with holidays?!? Mother's Day, forget about it! DRUNK. Making a scene in a restaurant. Only worse holiday was our wedding anniversary.
I am soooo understanding you. Wish I was in that place, as far as he's someone else's problem now. No more smelly gropings that I have to feel guilty for rejecting.
So glad that I can see people who have popped up on the other side.