wow, how I wish I would have had this site at my fingertips 10 years ago. These posts are all so true. I had the unfortunate experience of having to find out for myself. My only reward.....2 wonderful daughters that I wouldn't trade for the world! XXXX, please read and re-read these.......take this all to heart! Print it and keep it with you to read whenever you are questioning yourself-because you will if you stay. You will come to the point where your life is unmanageable and you are questioning yourself constantly. It is part of the chaos of alcoholsim. I was in your position 10 years ago. His family was concerned, now I know why. I wish someone would have taken the time to speak these words to me then. Whatever your path just remember that only YOU can make you happy and no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to "cure" him.
M