From Lexiecat
You aren't required to pay for an education she is not pursuing. If she wants to drink, she can support herself and her habit.
Well said! I can just imagine how expensive college is....
And now that I read this thread again...
My "college party times" did not involve failing exams due to parties and did not involve the police.
And yes, I knew others who partied a lot but Daddy was paying for everything, extra semesters, new cars when they crashed, and bailed a specific person out of jail because he was speeding and ran into a woman. He killer her, left 2 kids without mom. Did he stop drinking and driving? nope.
My XABF told me that story, we were in the same university. I knew the guy. He is still the same person nowadays. And XABF still drinks and drives superdrunk, without a care. Because "it won't happen to him".
You would think the tragedy and loss of a life would change something. Not in this case.
Alcoholism is madness, denial, insanity. If she is driving your cars I would take away that privilege too.