Originally Posted by
bookwyrm 
Please find yourself a copy of 'Why Does He Do That?' by Lundy Bancroft. It really opened my eyes to what was going on in my marriage. XAH escalated his verbal abuse in the last 2 years of our marriage too. I'm only starting to recognise the other, less obvious, forms of abuse he had been using prior to that.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-chapters.html
Reading the book study thread in the meantime could help, as well.
No substitute for the full book, but at this point it's a very nice supplement.
You deserve better than abuse, in
any way, shape, or form.
