Great advice above!!!!
Also, he was out partying, now if he yells at you and blames you about everything, then he is taking the 'focus' off of his drunk partying, that is just what a lot of Alkies do.
I think that is an excellent idea to start apartment hunting for YOU!
What he is doing is called QUACKING.
Please keep reading around the forum. Also please keep posting and let us know how you are doing as we do care very much.
Love and hugs,