Old 03-15-2011, 05:01 PM
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Dee74
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Depends on your definition of damages.

I didn't think I was hurting anyone, but I broke up with two long term girlfriends and I pushed a lot of good friends away by choosing the bottle.

I worried my family and friends.

I didn't do as good as I could have in my work, and I eventually (after 15 years drinking) lost my career over my drinking.

I didn't think I was hurting myself but I've been in car smashes, put myself through a plate glass door, demolished a coffee table, fell down innumerable flights of stairs and did some pretty hefty damage to my reputation by being a jerk and being generally embarrassing.

I could go on...but I didn't think any of that was damage...at the time.

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