Yes! I have felt and experienced so many of the things on that list lately! I can't really explain to people what's going on - our conversations become very "muddy" and before I know it things are turned completely around and I wind up confused, questioning myself and feeling crazy. It's almost surreal. Not allowing myself to be drawn into a debate, detaching from him and really paying attention to what he says is helping. I think he has always done this to some extent, it's just been ramped up big time as I am planning to leave. i also thought I should take notes to keep my thoughts straight!
So glad to know I'm not the complete wack job he almost had me believing I was!