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DestinyM He has a great memory, names, dates, places - me I have had the world on my shoulders so long (since childhood) that minute details are like in one ear and out the other, so when we're talking/arguing and he's like, give me an exact example of when I did this or that - I'm stuck. I just know the point I'm trying to make and how I'm feeling. Of course, since I can't instantly produce an example I'm labeled as lying, conniving or hiding something. Either way I'm frustrated, aggravated and knowing that I'm not crazy but feeling that way anyway.
That is exactly my situation. I don't have a detailed list of examples, so my AH concludes I'm wrong. I've gotten to the point where I don't even try to discuss things unless I have a cheat sheet in front of me.