Originally Posted by
nodaybut2day 
Trying to convince me that I was lying or had hidden secrets even I had forgotten
That's one I didn't think of to post. That has got to be my AH favorite technique to break me. He has a great memory, names, dates, places - me I have had the world on my shoulders so long (since childhood) that minute details are like in one ear and out the other, so when we're talking/arguing and he's like, give me an exact example of when I did this or that - I'm stuck. I just know the point I'm trying to make and how I'm feeling. Of course, since I can't instantly produce an example I'm labeled as lying, conniving or hiding something. Either way I'm frustrated, aggravated and knowing that I'm not crazy but feeling that way anyway.