(After engaged friend came over complaining the woman slapped him)
AH: You know everyone goes through that.
ME: No they do not. Hitting is not ok
AH: Well, if he did it, it wouldn't be ok. But she did it, and it was just a way to vent her prewedding jitters
ME: It is not ok.
AH: Sure, it is the same as other friends jitters the girl threw something at fiance.
ME: That is not ok.
AH: Before we got married, remeber you took off your engagement ring and said you were not sure that this was going to work
ME: Yes
AH: Well, its the same thing.
ME: No it is not.
AH: Well, it would have been better if you just slapped me. Taking off the ring is more like abandoning me.
ME: You are saying I am like someone who uses physical violence, and you are saying what I did was worse
AH: You don't know me at all
*I should have listening to myself when I first took that ring off*