I don't feel that Al-Anon is for me but I am tired of hearing people say I need to work my recovery.[/QUOTE]
My opinion is, take it or leave it:
From what you wrote my first thoughts are sometimes people around us, that knows us, see things about us that we dont see ourselves. It sounds like someone, sees that you need some guidance...
If you dont feel that you do, then my 1st question would be: Why did you come to SR and write your feelings?
From my experiance: I was angry and in denial (along with lack of education)of his drinking problems and the effects of the diesase.
(((The effects that changed "ME"...is what I discovered!)))Yep, they changed superwoman!
Can I hide my anger around others? Thought I did...
When you soul search yourself, you will find the answers.
Wishing you the best of luck!