Newby1961 --
Progress not perfection. I'm only a month into Al Anon and for me not to call around trying to make him know about HIS medical appts and figuring out how he'll get there and anything like that is a step in the right direction for me. For me not to sit back filled with fear over what he's doing, since he's not talking to me or with me or if he's drinking and going to call me or show up at my home flipping out later is also huge for me. I appreciate the post as I do all replies but understand I didn't say I was TOTALLY detached just enjoying the art of LEARNING to detach.