Please take it from someone who went thru a horrid financial situation during my divorce - PLEASE Seek LEGAL advice as soon as possible!
Depending on your State's Laws, there could be lots of damages done to you financially thru this process - Trust me - I went thru Garnishment of Wages for HIS medical bills, Threatening of Garnisment of Wages for our HOUSE that he refused to leave & also refused to pay the bills, force to file bankruptcy, I had to pay the balance due on our Federal Income Taxes and lots of other things
It was truly a nightmare.
Now 2 yrs later - my life is finally calm, serene and drama free - BUT it will take me a while to recovery financially.
Please seek an attorney to help you - the Laws are not very friendly to spouses that stayed with A's to try to help them overcome their disease!
PINK HUGS & Best Wishes for you,
Rita