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Old 03-14-2011, 01:44 PM
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seekingcalm
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Coffeelover, stay strong, you did the right thing. If he truly wants help, he will call 911. There is nothing anyone can do unless he seeks help on his own.

Focus on you and your children, they need you. Sending you positive energy; I know this is very difficult.

My exabf holed up in his house and drank for a week after I left him. He texted me that he wanted to die. I texted back that he should call 911. Hardest thing I ever did. Prior to that, I would run to his side anytime he was "in a bad way"...things only got worse.

He did ultimately, get help. He has been sober for 13 months, and very serious about his recovery from this terrible disease.
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