@lillamy, i totally agree with your statement...
OMG! i can not believe the feed back on this question...and the answers are all awesome...i moved on from my "forgiveness" in my own way with out the other person acutally saying the WORDS....
we all do it differently..i am also impress of the recoverying As here answering...THANK YOU FOR SHARING your thoughts...and to everyone else...my first amends is to me....that is the hard one...