The most important acceptance
that we ever need
is our own.
Everything and I mean EVERYTHING else
comes from that first and most critical acceptance.
When we get to that place in our head
it just kinda ... spreads out to everyone else
and their RE-action to us...
becomes secondary.
I think when you get your recovery back to the place
where you are completely confident
that you're doing and being and becoming
the person you were intended to be
the acceptance of family will fade in its importance.
and in its priority.
Also maybe remember that
not everyone's family
is in recovery themselves
and being the best most healthy human being
they're capable of being
doesn't interest them.
Hope something in here helps, hon.