I'll tell you what, 24, I am going to try to do it without laywers.
Am I crazy? maybe. Will I change my mind? Maybe.
At this point I *think* my AH will agree to everything.
I don't want any of his money. He won't want mine.
I think we'll split the stuff, and if not, he can have it.
We have no kids and no joint accounts.
I don't want his debt, but if he gives me half, it probably will equal what a lawyer would cost anyway, so what the hey?
Good luck to you as we move forward.