Some men can't be alone or can't stand their own company. Thus even a monkey with a skirt will be attractive to them as someone else said in another thread.
It is a gift to be able to ENJOY your own company and your own solitude.
"Fun" for others does not mean it will also be fun for you.... whatever you do, do it for you, not because others are doing it. In this equation I think you are the winner, passionfruit. Why not go out with male friends? you know, those who you can trust and won't be hitting on you or anything??