I have 4 kids under 10.
My 10 yr old has been on ADHD meds since he was 6
My 6 year old was put on ADHD meds, but I took him off because I would rather him be hyper than talking about killing himself.
When i think about the Chaos in my house right now, I want to scream.
My AH is at home with us, and I know that the circumstances in our house (thier whole lives) have definitely contributed to:
My 6 year old, who constanly punches, kicks my 3 year old and 1 yr old!
My 3 year old and 1 year old literally fist fighting!
and my 10 year old, who blocks it all out while being consumed by computer and video games 24/7.