Onewithwings

I always hear not to make any major life changes in the first year of recovery. But what if it is sort of thrust upon you? Or what if you make a decision without thinking of the consequences, and end up with a major, life-changing event taking place? How do you go about making and accepting such changes in early sobriety? How do you make the best decision you can, and do it without using? I hate change-- it scares me. But sometimes change is good, even when it is something that will turn your whole world upside down. I just wish I could have my cake and eat it too, but that can't go on much longer. It's the red pill or the blue pill right now (okay, bad place to talk about pills, lol!) I just want to be happy.