I've been thinking about this since you posted it...
...and on and off for awhile. Wife is working the steps right now, and I know she's on step 6. The closer she gets to step nine the more worried I'm getting. I really don't want to hear it. We talked about it the other day, and she's actually looking forward to it! Damn it!
In my normal passive-aggressive way, every chance I get to invoke, "except when it would cause harm to them or others," I take it. I should probably just tell her I am scared of it.
I guess more truth telling is in order. I ******* hate that!
Cyranoak