Thank you for posting this topic! I haven't. I've been sort of wondering if he would, or if I'd even make 'the list'. For me it is more curiousity as to what he would say because yeah, it is more about what it does for him than anything for me.
I would like him to at least acknowledge how his brand of crazy affected me. I know he gets that on a deeper level so maybe the amends for me is an ongoing process. As I understand it, some amends are like that, just about being a BETTER person to you on an ongoing basis.
The idea of amends though troubles me because I do believe accountability is more than a letter or talk about how crappy they treated you, it is about ONGOING integrity when in recovery.