I agree whole-heartedly, Zen, that outside assistance is vital. I rely upon that with my visits here. I just have had issues with a "mystical power" that comes to me from beyond the visible universe that allows me to do something I couldn't normally do for myself. Again, that power is within me and I alone am responsible for overcoming my addiction, just as much as it is that same person who may chose not to tap into that power and fall flat on his butt in relapse. I do not take responsibility for having the genetic disposition for alcohol addiction, that wasn't a choice I was given. However, I do take full responsibility to how I respond to the knowledge of condition and what direction I go as a result. I am not helpless. I may be weak at times and not use my senses, but I can stand on my own two feet.
Just don't let me forget I said that.