suki44883- I was not aware that I could go to a Al-anon meeting but I will look into it. Thanks for letting me know.
sofloguy- They have said they are not happy and they don't know why they continue to drink and be miserable, but we all know this is a process and they need to take one day at a time. Thank you both for responding. I am happy I found this site now I can have some support. I may let my family member know this is available to them as well.