May I suggest...
...because I think you are usually really cool, that your anger and resentment towards him, while justified, is hurting you more than it's hurting him? Your exchanges on this post where you are directing your anger towards Tallulah and others who have been sharing good information with their hearts in the right places, are a good example of this. Respectfully, you are being really out of line. I know. I'm out of line too sometimes. It doesn't look any better on you than it does on me.
I know mine hurts me more than it hurts anybody else. The more I'm able to just let it go the happier I am. I wish I could do it faster.
Take care,
Cyranoak