Thread: Do you relate to this at all?
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Old 03-10-2011, 04:14 PM
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tallulah
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Originally Posted by TakingCharge999 View Post
Lol Tuffgirl

Ahhh the gifts of No Contact, and the good anger that asks you whether you are done yet torturing yourself .
As tallulah said... she forgave as a purely selfish act, I am planning to follow her lead. Forgiving oneself is the toughest work IMHO...
:ghug3

You can do it. It's a conscious gift to yourself. In the case of cutting out the 'cancer' of disappointment, hurt and anger turned in on yourself.. it's ok to be a little selfish, forgive yourself, and let it go.

Tx
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