Yeah lots of shame involved with alcoholics. They think they can hid it from us. My current man has been drinking beer, brings almost all of the recycling out before I can get home but leaves 2 or so empties on the counter so when I smell the alcohol on his breath, it doesn't look like he's hiding it. Really, how sick must he be that he thinks I don't notice that the beer is no longer in the refrigerator? Insanity at it's finest. It's all I can do not to say a word. Makes me mad that he thinks he's fooling me or that I don't notice. Practicing compassion. . .
Peace,
Jen