Originally Posted by
Verbena 
Boy, have I been there--second guessing myself.
You've told him about the appointment. I wouldn't ask again. He'll either come or he won't. That ought to tell you something.
Document everything.
My therapist told me the same thing this week. I started doing so last night. It is really disturbing to see how much of the past 4-5 months has been constant chaos... Not fun. I've avoided documenting things bc I haven't wanted to face reality. But deep down I've known this was coming bc I have saved and fwd'd texts and voicemails and even turned the video camera on (with H's permission) during several of his rants at me. He believed it would show that I was out of control and boy was he wrong.