Hmm, well.
All I can say at this point is that by seeing a Lawyer, I have once again taken some action solely for me and my son. Like everybody says to the new folks in here, keep working your own recovery plan. More tools and options become available. This is so true.
I feel like frickin superman right now because I have more knowledge than ever before. That's balanced with extreme sadness. Never in my life did I know I'd be working on a decision of this magnitude. I joined on July 2010 because my wife drank alot and I thought I was going crazy. I didn't think I'd be writing about a divorce process. So yes. Things progress. They don't get better right away but each time you work only on yourself, you win and you feel so damn good!