Would like to add that my mother, while heading to a singing group she belongs to, went by my husbands car parked outside his work. She felt the need to call and tell me that which I would have preferred she not, BUT for the first time in a long time I am not falling apart bc he lied to me (clearly not at a meeting and not at the rehab program).
I am upset but not like I would have been even yesterday. Just goes to show that texts like the one he sent should be treated like every other thing he says. Assume it's a thought he has but not likely to be something he will follow through with.
I just hope he doesn't start pulling not following through stuff with our kids. Only time will tell.
I did email him to say I knew he was at work and wish I hadn't since he'll just view it as being checked up on and use it as a reason to be pisssed... Oh well. Can't change it now. I just won't do so next time...