It took me a few tries to find the best Al-Anon meeting for me in my area. (Although if I am in need of a meeting, I will drag myself to ANY of the meetings that fit into my schedule, but only the Tues/Fri 9:30 AM meeting feels like "home" for me.)
You've taken that first step. The first meeting is the hardest. It works if you work it and you're worth it.