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Old 03-07-2011, 10:45 PM
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naive
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hi wanttobehealthy-

i very much relate to your expressed feeling of being totally confused. i remember being like that. deep down inside, i knew that my life had become unmanageable but i was so worn out that my xABFs manipulation and blaming had me doubting myself.

that's when i arrived here.

i knew that i was too confused to think straight and that i was losing myself...i made a decision to follow the counsel of those here assisting me.

for me, that meant to get out of the crazy environment and take a time out...i went to my mother's house 3000 miles away for a month. in that month, i rested, wrote here and attended alanon. in that month, my head cleared and my path forward became clear.

is it possible to get out of your environment and take a break from the day to day with your husband?
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