Here are some of mine...
1. But he's done some really nice things for me and my daughter/grandkids (ya, and some really bad ones too)
2. I should believe in him and support him, isn't that what being married is about?
3. He's never hit me or gotten violent so really....is it THAT bad??
4. This is my fault - I should've paid attention to the red flags. I got myself into this mess
5. Maybe this time he will find recovery (knowing full well he's in complete denial) and I'll miss out on what could be a great guy (seriously???)
6. After I leave he's going to eat nothing but Taco Bell and pizza for the rest of his life
As I write this I see how ridiculous my thinking is. Good God!! So glad we can post stuff like this here
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