You posted this on GettingBy's thread:
Originally Posted by
passionfruit 
And you can convince yourself all day long, it's not as bad as I think.
The truth is: it is probably worse than you think.
And only you can recognize that and change that.
Any chance that you can go to/call the police station and ask their advice, as opposed to calling 911?
He is threatening you and has a history of violence against you. I don't need to tell you this stuff. You know it.
A record here or with one of your al-anon friends might get him locked up after the event. It won't bring you back if you're dead.