wrong thinking
These are some of the thoughts that inevitably roll through my head as I am trying to sort out my feelings about my situation with my AH. I thought some others could relate.
1. Who am I to complain about my living situation? Where would I be without him?
2. How selfish am I to want things (like personal care items)? How dare I put my needs above his (if he didn't need the beer I'd be living like a queen).
3. How dare I be unhappy at this stage of the game! Afterall didn't I know what I was getting into?
4. Am I unhappy because of him or because I am incapable of being happy?
5. How much better would my life be without him? Could I really survive?
6. I'm just a spoiled little girl who can't see a good thing when I have it.
7. I'm a horrible person for not having more faith in him. He says
everything will work out so I should believe him.
I don't have to tell you that most of these thoughts have been said to me either by my AH or my family throughout my life.
Maybe other people could post their wrong thinking. I know it would help to know that others have been where I am.