I don't know why it's really bothering me.
Are you kidding me! Of course if would bother you - it bothers me and I dont even know you. What a jerk!
I am really sorry you are having to deal with this. This man is showing his true colours, is a pig and obviously has the morals and values of a cucumber. I am always amazed about how low some people can go and you are the mother of his three children, I am afraid it sounds as though he is never going to 'get it'. Even if you take the alchohol away, this man is always going to be a low life.
Of course you are going to feel choked up about this, its completely disrespectful. He is trying to hurt you in the meanest way possible. Please know that you are worth so much better than this. Get angry, keep him out of your house and life and move on. He is going to be the biggest looser in all of this and you can get your own back by ignoring him, being happy and content that you no longer have him in your life, even if you have to fake it to begin with.
Make sure that you keep these txts too. Hes doing himself no favours.
Look after yourself today - you deserve it.